Archive for December, 2009

The Love Family

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Dear Friend,

There is something special in the air at this time of year that binds us together. People are traveling with bulging suitcases full of thoughtful gifts. Homes are decorated with lights, trees stare out of windows and seasonal tablecloths have come out of the closet. Menorahs gradually grew brighter and have now been packed away. The Kwanza celebration of family, community and culture will soon begin. Anticipation of the coming New Year has us thinking about new ways of being in the world.

Some of us are joyful, expectant, and filled with hope. Others are facing difficult realities and memories that make this season hard. Then there are those who have a leg in both worlds. One such family is the Love family in Utah. (That is their real name!)

The Love family is at serious risk of being torn apart by our immigration system. Ms. Love has been in the United States for 16 years, paid her taxes, gotten married, and had three children (all citizens). But years ago, when she was denied asylum and told to go back to Guatemala, she did not. She had a job and high hopes for a future in the United States, and was scared of the political upheaval and violence in Guatemala, so she stayed.

In April, Immigration and Customs Enforcement apprehended her. This holiday season, Ms. Love is at home with her family wearing an ankle bracelet that has given her chemical burns. They are fretting because they have spent all their expendable money on lawyers and fees for filing immigration forms. They have seen two sets of parents in their neighborhood deported, with their children being left behind. The future is unclear and there are very few paths forward that will keep the Love family together. But their faith in the teachings of Jesus Christ have them looking forward to a Christmas season filled with love, peace, and wisdom. Despite the challenges they face, they maintain hope.

The Loves are just one example of the many ways immigrant families face separation. Many immigrants are in detention centers, isolated in communities that are unwelcoming, or unable to travel freely because they lack the documents they need.

We can change this. 2010 can be the year that we reform our immigration system and ensure that immigrant families are not broken apart.

This holiday season, as we enjoy the blessings of togetherness, let us take action so immigrant families can enjoy those blessings in the years to come.

Take Action: Please sign a virtual postcard and give the gift of your support to the immigrant community.

Love,
Adam
Adam Gerhardstein
Adam Gerhardstein
Campaign Manager

An Update from Larry Love

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Larry LoveLarry Love, a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, is a father of three citizen children. His wife, who immigrated 16 years ago, is facing deportation. He first shared his story on our blog in July. This is an update on his family’s situation.

Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) interviewed us and believes that our marriage is valid, although later we will have to do the same interview again from what we are told. We filed the U-Visa application for those that have suffered abuse while in the country and we tried to get the police reports from different police agencies but much of the information was blacked out to protect the privacy of those involved. We have submitted requests to the police agencies to get the full reports but we have not heard back. We filed the U-Visa application with the blacked out reports and we have not heard back on the application. In the last 6 weeks we have spent over 400 dollars in copies and fedex charges and we filed the I-212 form, which cost $545 and we have not heard back on that one either. We also filed the I-601c form and they sent our money back to us on that one. Both of these forms are the waivers to try and get around the 2 -10 year bars that will be issued when she leaves the country.

We submitted detailed information about the dangers in Guatemala right now such as in a recent election over 50 candidates were assassinated and they only have a 2% solve rate on their murders because of corruption. We filed the above forms after being turned down for a day in court. They denied the petition to re-open the case and they denied our request for a stay of deportation. It is stressful and we pray that our country will be reasonable and stop deporting people like my wife with no criminal record and with three American Citizen Children and a US Citizen husband of three years. It seems they would rather separate families than get rid of criminals. From the way things are going the forms alone will exceed $5000 and the lawyer fees will be about $10,000. We have been paying the lawyer payments each month and since we still owe it does not give him a great incentive to work on the case much, so I have been the one filing the most recent forms such as the I-212, U-Visa and the 601c form. Most people do not understand what undocumented people have to go through.

She has also paid taxes and social security for the past 16 years and she has never worked under a different name. We believe ICE puts these cases as a higher priority since she is not hiding. It is much harder for them to try to deport illegal drug dealers especially since they have money and can pay for the best lawyers and there is a greater danger trying to find and arrest them. Our lawyer actually told us that it would be easier for him to help if she were a criminal in some respects.

My wife still has the bulky electronic ankle bracelet on. We got a call saying that we were trying to cut it off and I told them no and they could come and look at it. G4S showed up and found that it was a faulty bracelet and changed it out. The new one left a chemical burn on my wife’s leg that was there for over a week. It was about 3 inches by 2.5 inches. She has gone since April with the device so she could not wear shorts in the summer and we bought a couple of dresses that she could wear to church that go almost to the floor. We have applied and filled out and submitted literally hundreds of pages of information and they think she is going to try to escape. We try to hold on to hope that our three young children will not be separated from their mother at a critical time in their lives and we also submitted a real budget showing ICE that if they deport my wife that we will not be able to pay basic bills. We have turned off HBO long ago and we don’t have internet and we have tried to save money wherever possible. This experience helps us understand what other people are going through that are in deportation proceedings and it is very sad.

Recently our neighbor was deported and ICE left a five year-old autistic boy in the home with three teenagers and did not even call or coordinate with family services. They were not taking care of the boy properly and they were having beer parties, etc… Another case in the neighborhood, ICE left two young children in the home, seven and eight years old, and deported the mother and father, and once again did not notifying family services or anything. In this case the neighbors took the children in, but that creates another legal problem for the neighbors when trying to register the children for school or get medical services even though these children are American citizens.

We appreciate your efforts to stop this separation of families and the terror that ICE causes our families. Once again we don’t support illegal immigration although we feel the United States needs to be reasonable with the laws it enacts and enforces.

This Christmas season is a time of not only giving and receiving, but of remembering the Christ child and for what he stands. Love being the main focus of Christ’s life is something we cannot forget. Peace and wisdom were a great focus all of his life as well, and we need to continue following his example today spreading peace and going about our efforts in a wise way. Our hope is that this Christmas season will be filled with love, peace and wisdom.

Mayor Fenty Signs DC Marriage Bill

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District of Columbia Mayor, Adrian Fenty, signed the Religious Freedom and Civil Marriage Equality Amendment Act of 2009 at All Souls Church, Unitarian. This video records this historic day!

Marriage Equality Day in D.C.

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Orelia BuschOrelia Busch is a member of All Souls Church, Unitarian.

This morning, I watched with about 300 other people as Mayor Adrian Fenty signed the bill legalizing same-sex marriage in the District of Columbia. I watched from the pews of my own church, All Souls Church, Unitarian, as D.C. City Council members called the bill a victory for civil rights, human rights, and religious freedom. The ceremony made it abundantly clear that people of faith stand overwhelmingly for marriage equality. This bill does not in any way impede those whose faiths do not solemnize same-sex marriages from practicing their religion, and it allows ministers all over the District of Columbia to solemnize the unions for ALL of their congregants in the same way, regardless of sexual orientation.

For Unitarian Universalists and many others, marriage equality is an expression of our deepest values of fairness and justice for all. Although I have celebrated other victories for equality around the country in the past year, I wasn’t prepared for my own emotional reaction to the council’s vote and today’s bill signing. Something that I couldn’t name shifted inside of me, and I was in tears. Until this week, I didn’t truly believe that I would ever live in a place where I could marry another woman. I didn’t realize that I had taken for granted that I was in a fight that I could never win. It feels so much more personal for me now to continue to work for a day when I don’t have to worry about losing my rights if and when I move somewhere else. It seems even more ludicrous to me than it did before that some people have the right to marry and others are still waiting.

I left the ceremony with renewed hope and a renewed commitment to full equality for bisexual, gay, lesbian and transgender people. Equality, of course encompasses so much more than the right to marry – it includes things that many of us take for granted – like being able to use the bathroom safely, the right to comprehensive healthcare, inclusive sexuality education, safe schools, the right to do meaningful work, and so much more. The road ahead of me seems long and full of twists and turns, but if it is paved with victories like today’s, I will be blessed indeed. If you are as grateful for this day as I am, please take a moment to send a thank-you note to the D.C. City Council members whose support made this day possible.

Thank You Notes to DC City Council

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In less than 24 hours after the vote, over 850 people have sent notes to the District of Columbia City Council thanking them for passing the the Religious Freedom and Civil Marriage Equality Amendment Act. Here are a few of those notes…

I am a Minister, straight, father, and resident of Ward 3. Many thanks for your courage and demonstrating your commitment to justice by voting yes on The Religious Freedom and Civil Marriage Equality Amendment Act of 2009. You have brought us one step closer to full equality for all Americans, regardless of sexual orientation. Your actions are an inspiration to people all across the nation. Thank you for standing on the side of love.
-Richard, DC

I am much appreciative and you will be honored by generations to come.
-Grant, DC

I am pleased to feel solidarity with the Council of the District and even inspiration as we, in Maryland, continue to seek equality in this state. Your actions are an inspiration to my congregation and to people struggling for fairness across the nation.
-David, MD

As a former resident of the DC area and an advocate of marriage equality here in Maine, I want you to know how pleased and proud I am that you have voted to affirm human dignity in the District. The Religious Freedom and Civil Marriage Equality Amendment Act of 2009 will be landmark legislation-the perfect way to begin a new decade!
-Kent, ME

Thank you for standing on the side of love and equality. I am a 70 year old heterosexual grandmother, who loves many gay people. Thank you for voting yes on The Religious Freedom and Civil Marriage Equality Amendment Act of 2009.
-Meredith, MA

On behalf of “straight but not narrow” citizens everywhere, thank you for standing on the side of love.
-Michael, NY

I am a 62-year-old, straight white woman, and I really appreciate your courage. Marriage Equality is about equality for all of us. Bless your clarity of vision.
-Judith, NJ

Thank you for voting to legalize gay marriage in D.C. I live in New Jersey and my girlfriend lives in New York. Both locations have had marriage equality disappointments recently, and until I heard the news, I was running out of hope. Thank you for choosing to send a message, that all people have the right to marry.
-Rebecca, NJ

I look forward to the day that I can marry my life partner, the love of my life, the one who has made me complete, in my own home state!
-Audrey, PA

By voting to legalize marriage for this community, you are demonstrating that you understand and respect the people in both your community and around the country. Thank you for making love and life possible for countless people in your area.
-Jessica, GA

As a straight American, I think we need to stand up and fight for the equal rights of all. Thank you for standing on the side of love.
-Stephanie, FL

My partner and I are currently living in a state where gay marriage is banned. Thank you for giving us another option.
-Lizz, TX

In a world so divided by ideological based hate, you are a beacon of hope for the future of our children and the world. Thank you for your courage.
-Samantha, TX

Thanks from a straight, married, Christian sixty-two year old woman in the nation’s heartland.
-Jeannie, OK

As a straight male, devout Irish Catholic I would like to thank you for voting yes on The Religious Freedom and Civil Marriage Equality Amendment Act of 2009. Bigotry has no place in this country.
-Tom, NE

My sister is waiting for the moment when she can marry her partner in Wisconsin. My daughter looks forward to the day when she can unite with her partner in Minnesota. They are thankful to you for taking the risk to do what is right and just. We are hopeful that other states will look to your example!
-Leslie, WI

As a resident of the state of Wisconsin, I look forward to the day when we will have a similar celebration right here at home.
-Kris, WI

My partner and I were married in California last year when it was still legal. We were surrounded by family, friends, ministerial colleagues, and people of faith who recognize the power of love needs to be increased, not diminished. Thank you for helping to spread the love even further!
-Wendy, CA

Every once in a while we look back and read about historical moments that made a difference during the last century and before, the women’s vote, the Loving v. Virginia. This is just such a case thank you for your courage and compassion.
-Maria, WA

I am writing this through tears, tears of joy! My wife and I wish to thank you with all our hearts for Standing on the side of Love! For realizing that we too are a family that deserves to be recognized and respected. Even though we are sitting in the other Washington, please know that today we are all citizens of Washington DC. Proud and forever grateful!
-Sage, WA

This is a huge milestone for those of us who yearn to have the basic rights afforded to so many without a second thought. Your support and willingness to fight the Good Fight will not be forgotten.
-Paul, OR

Send your own thank you note to the DC City Council.