Hosting an International Transgender Day of Remembrance Event
The Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR), held annually in November 20th, is a day in which groups across the world hold vigils to remember those that have been brutally murdered simply because of their gender identity. There are many ways to have a vigil. Light a candle for each person and read their names aloud—it may be the only time they are recognized as murder victims. Put their names on a star or on a placard and lay down in a public die-in for 5 minutes to create awareness about the murders. Partner with local LGBT organizations or consider hosting the TDOR in your congregation.
Vigil Resources:
–Statement from Unitarian Universalist Association President Peter Morales
–Sample opening remarks
–List of trans persons who have been reported murdered over the last year to read at a remembrance vigil (UPDATED November 16, 2011)
–Sample litany
Hymn # 1002 – “Comfort Me” (from Singing the Journey)
Hymn #1057 – “Go Lifted Up” (from Singing the Journey)
Reading #429 (from Singing the Living Tradition)
Reading #453 (from Singing the Living Tradition)
–Sample prayers: “Transgender Day of Remembrance in Four Voices” and “WE PRAY: Prayers To and For the Transgender Community” from thoughts ON
–Transgender Day of Remembrance blog posts:
What if Living Authentically Could Cost You Your Life?
Secret Murders in the United States
Additional Information:
–Resources on Transgender Identity and Welcome from the UUA’s LGBT Ministries
–”Tips on How to Hold a Successful TDOR” from Remembering Our Dead
Questions?
If you have any questions or need assistance with hosting an event in your community, please don’t hesitate to contact allison.woolbert@gmail.com or love@uua.org.
