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Day 14: Create an Outpouring of Love

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Today is Day 14 of the Thirty Days of Love. Today’s action is to join our response love network to offer messages of support in the wake of tragic acts of violence. Click here for resources, family actions, and more! Click here to sign up for the daily Thirty Days of Love emails.


When I first heard about the shooting at the Sikh Temple of Wisconsin last summer, I couldn’t help but remember a parallel act of violence four years earlier at my own congregation, the Tennessee Valley UU Church (TVUUC). In both cases, a man with a gun and an agenda targeted innocent people of faith.

But along with the recollection of heartbreak and loss, I also carry with me the memory of the incredible flood of love and support that we received from our local community and from across the country. All around our church there are things folks sent to let us know we were loved.

With the events at TVUUC in mind, thousands of you responded to the shooting at the Sikh temple last summer in Oak Creek, Wisconsin. SSL supporters wrote over 2,000 messages of love and support to the Sikh community there. I think that anytime there is an act of violence targeting people because of their identities, we can and should reaffirm a message of love and a vision of a country where we all belong.

In that spirit, Standing on the Side of Love is gathering a network of people to send messages surrounding victims of violence with an outpouring of love whenever incidents of hate occur. From the shooting in Oak Creek to the recent arson attack on a mosque in Joplin, we can ensure that victims of senseless acts of hate know that they are loved.

Click here to sign up. We’re also searching for inspiring names for our response network, or “love team” and would love your help. Love Ambassadors? The Love Squad? What helps us best convey that we are here in spirit with those affected by a tragedy? Send your ideas to love@uua.org.

In the wake of violence and tragedy, let us lift up voices of love and compassion. Sign up for the response network today and help ensure that whenever and wherever acts of violence occur, we can surround the victims with an outpouring of love.

In faith,

Rev. Chris Buice
Tennessee Valley UU Church
Knoxville, Tennessee

PS: We hope your congregation is participating in Share the Love Sunday! We have compiled some helpful resources for planning your service, taking a collection to support the Unitarian Universalist Association, and discussing what it means for your congregation to stand on the side of love. Thanks for your generosity on February 17!

Tell Rep. Joe Walsh: End the Vitriolic Rhetoric

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Congressman Child SupportWe lament the recent rash of violence across the nation and decry the kind of language that makes excuses for, encourages, and even incites such violence. The fear-promoting words of Rep. Joe Walsh are a recent example of the sort of accusatory, bigoted rhetoric that betrays the cherished ideals of religious freedom and tolerance.

At a recent town hall meeting, Congressman Joe Walsh of Illinois’ 8th District made a number of insensitive and inflammatory comments about the American Muslim community. These kinds of comments are not helpful to our national conversation and perpetuate a culture of violence against American Muslims.

The following weekend, two different Muslim houses of worship were subject to violent, hateful attacks and a number of Muslim graves were vandalized in nearby Chicago suburbs. Violent rhetoric, like the language so often employed by Rep. Walsh, normalizes and enables this kind of violence.

Please join us in speaking out against this kind of hateful rhetoric and sign our petition to Rep. Joe Walsh today.

As Chicagoland Unitarian Universalist ministers, we choose to Stand on the Side of Love and ask all people to follow the path of peace, justice, and goodness called for by their own faiths. We ask that every leader, civic or religious, speak the language of common good and understanding rather than hostility and ignorance. We hope that Rep. Joe Walsh will step back from his angry and hateful remarks, apologize to the thousands of peace-loving, moral, and devoted Muslims, and, even more importantly, recognize that he has the power to help build bridges and defuse violence.

Let us reclaim a more peaceful society where religious freedom is protected and our beautiful diversity is celebrated. Leaders like Rep. Joe Walsh must change the language they use and participate in civil discourse rather than make accusations.

Click here to sign our petition to Rep. Joe Walsh, and ask him to end his use of inflammatory, hateful language.

We write this, not to condemn Rep. Walsh, but to ask everyone, particularly our leaders, to take stock of our language and to question whether our actions promote the ideals for which we, as a nation, stand. We can all speak and do better.

In faith,

Rev. Hilary Krivchenia
Countryside Unitarian Universalist Church
Palatine, Illinois

Rev. Connie Grant
Unitarian Church of Evanston
Evanston, Illinois

Rev. Emmy Lou Belcher
DuPage Unitarian Universalist Church
Naperville, Illinois


The message above went out on Friday, August 17, 2012 to Standing on the Side of Love supporters. You can sign-up for these emails here.

Send Love to the Sikh Community

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The message below went out on Monday, August 6, 2012 to Standing on the Side of Love supporters. You can sign-up for these emails here.


“As we move forward in the weeks and months ahead, we must do more than express compassion. We must reflect on what conditions make repeated acts of deranged violence possible and take action. The killings we keep witnessing in America are symptoms of a culture that is too tolerant of hatred and too reluctant to restrict access to deadly weapons.”

–UUA President Rev. Peter Morales, in a statement about the tragic murders this weekend at a Sikh temple in Wisconsin

When I was fourteen, my Unitarian Universalist youth group and I traveled to the neighboring town of Oak Creek, Wisconsin to visit a Sikh temple. Yesterday, I was horrified to learn that six of these community members who welcomed a group of rowdy UU teenagers with open arms were murdered. Never could I have ever imagined that something so violent and hateful could happen a mere fifteen miles from my childhood home. The gunman has been described by the Southern Poverty Law Center and others as a “frustrated neo-Nazi” and white supremacist.

Will you join us in creating an outpouring of love for the Sikh community? Click here to send words of prayer, compassion, and love to the Sikh Temple of Wisconsin.

As a born-and-raised Unitarian Universalist, the news of this tragedy evokes memories of July 2008, when the Tennessee Valley UU Church in Knoxville, Tennessee, was attacked by a lone gunman with hate in his heart, killing two. The impact was felt by UUs the world over. The astonishing outpouring of support that the Knoxville UU community received from their broader community paved the way for the creation of our campaign for love and justice.

In the wake of this tragedy that strikes so close to home, let us reach out to our Sikh neighbors in compassion and love, welcome them into our hearts and our prayers, and show solidarity with a community that has been so brutally attacked.

Please join us in sending love and compassion to the Sikh Temple of Wisconsin. Click here to send your message today.

In faith & love,

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Meredith Lukow
Program Assistant
Standing on the Side of Love

Where were you when they started burning the Quran?

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A couple of weeks ago, the Standing on the Side of Love campaign asked us to urge President Obama to take a stronger stand for religious freedom. This week, a coalition of faith groups echoed this message when they met with the Justice Department to encourage the Obama administration to take a more public stance against anti-Muslim hate speech and hate crimes.

Unfortunately, however, anti-Muslim hate speech and hate crimes are spreading. In the past couple of weeks alone:

  • A man was arrested for shouting anti-Muslim slurs as he urinated outside a mosque in the Astoria section of Queens.
  • A 21-year-old college student is accused of repeatedly stabbing a Manhattan taxi driver after asking if the driver is Muslim.
  • Fire was set to a planned mosque and Islamic Center in a Memphis, Tennessee suburb.

Here in my home of Gainesville, Fla., a local fringe church known for its anti-Muslim and anti-LGBT rhetoric has been getting national media attention for their planned “Burn a Quran Day” on Sept. 11th.

That is why in Gainesville we are taking a strong stand. We are participating in a Gainesville March for Peace, actively working with a new interfaith organization to address these issues, and taking part in interfaith prayer services in partnership with the Muslim community. Can you stand with me, my town, and my Muslim neighbors here and throughout the world and plan or attend a local solidarity event?

Click here to join or post a solidarity event in support of religious freedom and tolerance.

We are also collecting discarded political yard signs from the recent primary elections and holding a gathering at our congregation to recycle them into creative declarations of religious tolerance and freedom to be displayed around town. In addition, many local clergy will join me in sharing common readings from the Quran at our September 10-12 worship services.

In the past, I have heard from the Islamic community that they have concerns that responding to such attacks might give more attention to the hate group planning them. Now, amid the Quran burnings in our town, the dangerous anti-Muslim political rhetoric, the destruction of property, the harassment, and the violence, we have reached the point at which it is our silence — not our response — that magnifies the power of the other side’s message.

Click here to list and view local events, rallies, vigils and worship services devoted to religious freedom, diversity and tolerance.

In an environment immersed in fear, it is the responsibility of all who have the ability to stand for what is right to speak out. It may still be the best strategy for Muslims themselves to bear this insult in silence. That’s not my call. I would certainly understand not wanting to perpetuate an image as “angry.” Non-Muslims, however, don’t run that risk. For us, the risk is that our children will someday ask us: “Where were you when they started burning the Quran in Gainesville?”

I invite every individual, every member of the clergy, and every place of worship across the United States to stand in solidarity with me, my town, and our Muslim neighbors both here and throughout the world.

At your Friday, Saturday, or Sunday service on September 10, 11, or 12, plan to say a few words about religious diversity and freedom. Talk about what’s going on in Gainesville and New York and Tennessee and elsewhere. Urge your friends, neighbors, coworkers, and congregants to stand on the side of love and respect for religious diversity. And by all means, participate in local events supporting peace and religious freedom.

Thank you for standing on the side of love.

God bless us every one,

Rev. Dr. Meredith Garmon, Senior Minister

Rev. Dr. Meredith Garmon, Senior Minister
Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Gainesville

P.S. To access some useful readings from the Quran you can use in your service or event, click here.