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Day 9: Bend the Arc

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Today is Day 9 of the Thirty Days of Love. Today’s action is to “Tweet Your Faith.” Click here for more resources, family actions, and more! Click here to sign up for the daily Thirty Days of Love emails.


People of faith bring a number of key perspectives to contemporary society. In a world that too often bows at the altar of radical individualism, we argue for the value of community. Where communities are intolerant of difference, we argue for the dignity and value of each human being. To those who view faith as a source of suffering rather than healing, we offer examples of transformative social movements that were firmly based in faith: the abolition of slavery in the United States; the dismantling of apartheid in South Africa; and India’s casting off of colonialism, among many others.

My organization, Bend the Arc: A Jewish Partnership for Justice, has much in common with the Standing on the Side of Love campaign. We are mobilizing the Jewish community to hold America to its promise as a land of opportunity for all. This nation has provided incredible opportunity for Jews, many of whom immigrated with nothing but the clothes on their backs. We are a community of Jews working to ensure that our nation is one where basic fairness and the common good underpin social and economic policy – not just for Jews, but for all who live here.

While our work is based in and inspired by Jewish tradition and history, we work across lines of race and faith in communities from coast to coast. In doing so, we affirm that we are interconnected and that our fates are inextricably linked. We believe that when any group of people is treated wrongly, everyone in our nation is harmed.

Faiza Ali, a participant in Bend the Arc’s Community Organizing Residency, an interfaith training program for community organizers, has taken this to heart. Faiza, a Muslim, works with a coalition largely composed of Christian churches to find solutions to community problems. Her commitment to social justice is based in her religious belief, but it in no way conflicts with the diverse group of congregants she works with. Her commitment to multi-faith action is exactly what Bend the Arc strives to foster.

In addition to our work in communities, we are taking a stand in Washington, D.C. for a tax system that is fair, progressive, and that works for everyone. I recently joined other faith leaders, including Unitarian Universalists, for “Rabbis, Imams, Pastors and Nuns on the Bus,” to encourage our elected officials to protect Social Security, Medicare and Medicaid, and to end destructive and unnecessary tax breaks for the wealthiest Americans. Though our practices differ, people of faith share a tradition of service and the belief that we must work together to raise up those in need.

When we look at news around the world, we often see evidence that religion can be a source of conflict. By providing concrete evidence to the contrary, we show that religion truly can be a unifying force and help address the roots of suffering in our society. As it says in the Talmud, “You are not obligated to complete the work, but neither are you free to desist from it.” And when we work in interfaith partnership, we can accomplish so much more together.

B’Shalom,

Rabbi Jason Kimelman-Block

Rabbi Jason Kimelman-Block is Senior Director of Leadership Initiatives and Rabbi-in-Residence for Bend the Arc: A Jewish Partnership for Justice.

The Transformative Power of the First Legal Gay (and Interfaith) New York Wedding

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Rabbi Lev Baesh will officiate the first legal gay wedding in the State of New York.

Guest Post by Rabbi Lev Baesh, who will officiate the first legal gay wedding in the State of New York.

You might not guess this, but it can be easier to find a liberal rabbi to officiate a same-sex wedding than to find one to officiate a Jewish wedding for an interfaith couple. This Saturday night at midnight, I will be officiating the first legal gay wedding in the State of New York. The couple found me in Massachusetts through www.InterfaithFamily.com’s free Jewish Clergy Officiation Referral Service, after being turned away by several rabbis in the NY area.

What never ceases to amaze me is the dedication some interfaith couples have to finding Jewish connection in this important celebration in their family’s life. It also doesn’t surprise me that a gay interfaith couple, which faces potential discrimination on several fronts, continues to search for that connection as well. Thankfully we have this web based service, and the dedication of its staff to equality, that makes it possible.

I have worked with www.InterfaithFamily.com for several years, but began officiating and co-officiating interfaith weddings 20 years ago. It was both the high level of acceptance my religious Jewish family had towards people of diversity, and my own struggle as a gay man to find connection in the religious heritage I deeply loved, that moved me to make it easier for people to find connection here as well. Reform Judaism has been full of social justice activities and drive for the world around us, but is only in the past decades seeing the challenge it places on its own committed members and potential members, by not welcoming both GLBT and interfaith couples in a bigger way.

There has been a shift in both the welcoming of GLBT and interfaith families of recent past, but institutional change is slow and haphazard. Gay, lesbian and transgender rabbis are welcome to study for ordination, but the prayer books, religious school materials and social conversations still refer to heterosexual families as primary and desired. Interfaith programming has increased and many of the congregations in our liberal movements are more than 40% interfaith families. However, the leadership of the movement still can’t accept an interfaith married person into the rabbinic school. And, with a nearly 50% or greater number of Jews in interfaith partnerships and marriages nationally, the liberal Jewish movements still see them as a minority when it comes to programming and organizational decision making.

It is both the GLBT and interfaith nature of this wedding, with its high profile status as the first legal gay wedding in NY, that may give us the power to move the liberal Jewish world further in its path toward internal acceptance of all its diversity. With the liberal Jewish world coming around to the reality it faces, of both interfaith and gay families (some living in the same households) making Jewish choices, there can be great strength in changing the nature of acceptance of diversity on a national level. As much as this wedding is a triumph for same-sex families, we still have a lot of work to do to bring national value to acceptance of the full diversity of our populous.

May this wedding be not just the first of many in NY, but the gentle push forward that makes room for other states and other religious movements to open their doors wide to the people who already love so much of what we value as a free and inclusive society.

Lev is a Reform Rabbi and the Director of the Resource Center for Jewish Clergy at Interfaithfamily.com. Lev can be found teaching courses on Jewish living and life cycles, and facilitating workshops on ‘Inclusion and Welcoming’ of unaffiliated Jews and interfaith families in Jewish life and community. In his spare time, Lev travels the world officiating life cycle events for Jewish and interfaith/intercultural couples and families. Lev was ordained in the Reform Movement of Judaism in 1994, holds a law degree from Yeshiva University, a BA in Psychology from Clark University, and is currently attending Regis College/ Lawrence Memorial Hospital School of Nursing (RN). Lev lives in Malden, MA with his partner Andrew.

With interfaith solidarity, we can turn the tides

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The next few days carry profound spiritual weight for many Americans.

Across the country, Jews are celebrating Rosh Hashanah – the Jewish New Year, and the beginning of the High Holidays. During this time, Jews seek our true spiritual center through reflection, rest, introspection, congregation, prayer, and redemption.

Muslims will be marking Eid-Al-Fitr, the end of Ramadan. Eid al-Fitr celebrates the purification achieved by a month of sunrise-to-sunset fasting, one of the five pillars of Islam. Normally, Eid al-Fitr is marked by several days of festivities, but sadly, many Muslim Americans are feeling cautious about celebration given the holiday’s proximity to Sept. 11.

Indeed, on Saturday, millions of people will again feel the weight of the memories from the coordinated terrorist suicide attacks upon the United States on Sept. 11, 2001. The vast majority of Americans will find constructive ways to mark this somber occasion, but a few extremists will seek to divide this country by attacking Muslims, even going so far as to burn the Quran.

It’s not too late to stand on the side of love, at this moment in time, when love is what our country needs most. Click here to find a solidarity service, public worship, interfaith gathering, or peace event near you:

http://salsa.democracyinaction.org/o/1272/t/9818/p/salsa/event/common/public/search.sjs?region=&distributed_event_KEY=536&city=&country=USA

Thankfully, those of us who speak the language of love are putting messages of harmony, community, freedom, and peace into the world. Over the next few days, countless clergy will deliver sermons about Islamaphobia and read messages from the Quran. Vigils, marches, and rallies will remember those lost in the 9-11 attacks while also speaking out for religious freedom. Interfaith worship services and gatherings will take place across the country, from Florida to California, offering a call to end the anti-Muslim sentiments that have swept the nation.

In the face of the negativity we have seen directed towards Muslims and those perceived to be Muslim, these public witnesses of interfaith solidarity, and the outpourings of support, are inspiring.

With love we are turning the tides.

To those who are celebrating the Jewish New Year, Standing on the Side of Love wishes you Shana Tova.
To those celebrating the end of Ramadan, we wish you Eid Mubarak.
To all who lend this campaign your hearts, day in and day out, we wish you, above all else, great love.

With blessings for a sweet new season upon us…

Dan Furmansky
Campaign Manager
Standing on the Side of Love