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UUs in Westchester & Rockland, NY Support PrideWorks for Youth

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PrideWorks is a prominent educational conference for LGBTQ youth and their allies, held annually in Westchester County, New York. Every year, some 600 LGBTQ youth, their educators, parents, and allies flock to PrideWorks for seminars and speakers addressing such topics as healthy relationships, coming out, anti-bullying, and building a gay-straight alliance.

Every year there are also protesters outside the conference. This year their message was one of change–not for themselves but instead that our youth should change their sexual orientation. We are bothered every year by their presence as it’s the first thing that the youth see as they arrive. This year we offered a different greeting with a Standing on the Side of Love banner, which the youth appreciated enthusiastically.

Offering a message of love instead of hate as the youth arrive.

Now in its fourteenth year, many Unitarian Universalist youth and adults in our area have attended the PrideWorks conference since the beginning. Some time ago, the youth group from our congregation in Hastings on Hudson held a fundraiser to support the conference, becoming the first UU supporter listed in the program. Over the past year, we have organized a bigger presence at PrideWorks. Each of the congregations in Westchester and Rockland obtained governing board approval to be an official sponsor and raised funds in some fashion, ranging from a youth group bake sale to share-the-plate programs.

SSL volunteers from Westchester-area congregations.

This year, we were a “Rainbow Circle” supporter–recognized prominently with a display table to provide supportive material to youth. Many of us wore our Standing on the Side of Love shirts to help spread love all weekend long.


This post was contributed by John Cavallero, the Director of Religious Education at the First Unitarian Society of Westchester in Hastings on Hudson, New York. Other participating UU congregations include: Mohegan Lake, Croton on Hudson, Mount Kisco, White Plains, and Pomona.

Help Pass New York Anti-Discrimination Law

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The message below went out on Wednesday, May 9, 2012 to Standing on the Side of Love supporters in the state of New York. You can sign-up for these emails here.


Dear Friend,

This message is going out to all of our allies in New York. We wanted to share the email below from our friends at Empire State Pride Agenda. A bill to ban discrimination on the basis of gender identity has passed the Assembly. Now, the State Senate needs to hear from constituents if we can expect a vote on this common sense measure. Can you be in touch with your Senator today and ask them to support this measure and urge that it come for a vote? You can find out more details from ESPA.

In faith,

Dan Furmansky
Campaign Manager
Standing on the Side of Love


From: “Lynn Faria, Empire State Pride Agenda”
Date: Tue, 8 May 2012 12:01:55 -0700
Subject: Email your senator, maximize Equality & Justice Day

Dear Dan,

Today hundreds of pro-LGBT New Yorkers from all walks of life will join together at the Capitol for Equality & Justice Day. We will rally, build strong coalitions and make the case to legislators for a transgender non-discrimination law, government support for LGBT health and human services and increased funding for our homeless and runaway youth.

Whether you’re joining us in Albany or reading this from your hometown, please take a moment to magnify our impact and email your state senator for transgender equality and justice right now.

Contact your representative so that transgender New Yorkers can live their lives treated as fairly as anyone else. Here’s an excerpt of an anonymous story from our TRANScribe Project, illustrating why it’s so important to pass this bill:

“We don’t treat people like you here.” Still confused, maybe from a haze of cold medicine, I said, “People with asthma? I don’t need a specialist or anything; I think I just have bronchitis.

“No, we don’t know where to put you. You know, people who we can’t place.” The light went on. I stated, “Right, you don’t want me here because you can’t tell if I’m a man or a woman”. It was now too late to go elsewhere, and I was furious…

…All I was asking for was treatment for a routine medical problem, but my appearance was so out of the routine that I was treated as a medical anomaly — As if my right to literally breathe were offensive. Read more…

When we meet with legislators to make the case for our community, they always tell us they want to hear from you. And we should assume they’re going to hear from the other side!

Whether you’re here with us today, or cheering us on from your corner of the Empire State, I know you will all do your part to make the impact of our collective call louder than ever.

In unity!

Lynn Faria
Interim Executive Director
Empire State Pride Agenda

P.S. Whether you’re joining us in person or not, you can join the conversation on Twitter @prideagenda with the hash tag #ej12, or you can get updates, share photos and tell your story at www.facebook.com/prideagenda.

Day 20: Today We Are Called

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The message below went out on Saturday, February 4, 2012 to those Standing on the Side of Love supporters who signed up for daily Thirty Days of Love emails. You can sign-up for the 30 Days of Love emails here.


New York is a HUGE supporter of the Prison Industrial Complex. Do you know about Sing Sing? It is a maximum-security correctional facility in the town of Ossining, New York. But do you also know that New York Theological Seminary (where I am working on my doctorate in multifaith ministry) offers a Master of Divinity program to inmates? The Seminary takes seriously the challenge in Jeremiah 29:7 “to seek the Shalom of the city.” I proudly note that a couple of my colleagues in my doctoral program used to be inmates there.

Do you know about Rikers Island? It is a jail complex — not a prison — that is also in New York. It holds local offenders who are awaiting trial; cannot afford or cannot obtain bail or were not given bail from a Judge; those serving sentences of one year or less; and those temporarily placed there pending transfer to another facility. The New York Department of Corrections runs both Sing Sing and Rikers.

Today I offer a prayer of gratitude for a critical change affecting some who end up on Rikers Island. Recently the New York City Council passed a law (Intro 656) sponsored by Melissa Mark-Viverito of Manhattan to end the Department of Corrections policy of cooperating with federal efforts to deport undocumented immigrants. It is a great victory and will save thousands of undocumented immigrants without criminal records from the terror of detention and deportation.

This bill was introduced as the result of the advocacy of the “NYC New Sanctuary Coalition” and “Make the Road,” in conjunction with two law professors from NYU and Yeshiva who helped draft the bill. It has been informally called the “ICE out of Rikers” campaign and has been supported by members of two of Community Church’s key organizations, the Action for Justice Committee (AFJ) and the New Sanctuary Task Force.

Yes, in spite of the overwhelming avalanche of negatives against those who have “allegedly” made wrong choices, we can celebrate those fragments of perfection that we find.

See http://www.gothamgazette.com/article/searchlight/20110822/203/3589 and http://www.gothamgazette.com/article/searchlight/20111104/203/3630

Check out the victory press conference on YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OdVfy9t4GLc

Rabbi Abraham J. Heschel reminds us that “Prayer can water an arid soul, mend a broken heart, and rebuild a weakened will.” It is in this spirit that:

Today, I pray that this action will send forth ripples of justice–all across the land.
Today I pray that countless families feel a renewed sense of hope and possibility.
Today, I pray that the New York City Council, that each of its members, and the Mayor continue to make these positive, life-affirming legal decisions.
Today, I pray for the continued commitment of Unitarian Universalists to be strong in support of immigrant rights.

Join me:

Please share what you feel the moment is calling for us to do now.

Share your thoughts with our community on Facebook: www.facebook.com/SideofLove

The two responses that inspire the most FB ‘likes’ will receive a free Standing on the Side of Love T-shirt or hat.

As we know, “Prayer does not change things; prayer changes people, and people change things.” Let each of us be that person changing things. Let each of us choose to actively keep on fighting for justice. Let each of us choose to celebrate the sweet victories, too. For all of this, and more, I pray.

Masakhane,

Janice Marie Johnson
UUA’s Multicultural Growth Director

Deeply committed to creating multifaceted community — multicultural, anti-racist, anti-oppressive, multifaith, multigenerational, and more — Janice is a religious educator who believes in collaborative, experiential learning. Her maxim is “Masakhane,” a rich and resonant word from the Nguni language — one of the many languages of South Africa, of which Zulu and Xhosa are two. Loosely translated into English it means, “Let us build together.” Janice’s participation in today’s Standing on the Side of Love initiative is an example of how she embodies her maxim as she lives her faith.

Celebrating Love’s Power and Marriage for All in NYC

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By Fourth Universalist Society of New York City member Julie Taylor

As same sex couples joyfully celebrated the arrival of marriage equality in New York, the political rapidly became personal. Do we get married? And if so, when and where? The Fourth Universalist Society in New York City stepped up to Stand on the Side of Love with the hundreds of couples as they stood in line to pick up marriage licenses in Manhattan. In front of the NYC City Clerk’s office every day for a week, members of Fourth Universalist invited couples to “I Do! Me Too! Wedding Week at Fourth U”, a week long celebration held at the congregation’s Upper West Side home.

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Fourth U member Erin Bigelow blows bubbles for couples receiving their marriage license in New York City


N.Y. is new option for same-sex couples

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Denise Deschenes and Helene Roussi, shown with sons Gus, 11, and Shane, 16, talk about what marriage means to them.

Denise Deschenes and Helene Roussi, shown with sons Gus, 11, and Shane, 16, talk about what marriage means to them.

We here at the Standing on the Side of Love Campaign are filled with joy when we open the newspapers and see people with their yellow shirts on, spreading the message of love. New York’s emergence as a marriage equality state has offered ample opportunity.

Check out the full story from the Columbus Dispatch:
http://www.dispatch.com/live/content/local_news/stories/2011/07/29/n-y-is-new-option-for-same-sex-couples.html?sid=101